Is your family growing? Here’s how you can prepare your older child for a new baby

First of all, congratulations! 💗 When the family is growing and a new little miracle is on the way, it’s an exciting time for everyone. But we also know it can be a time filled with nerves. That’s why we’ve gathered some valuable tips on how to ease the transition and strengthen the sibling bond right from the start.

1. Involve the older sibling in the preparations
   Let your child be part of preparing for the baby’s arrival. It can be something as simple as helping to make the stroller ready or picking out baby clothes together. By including them in these tasks, they can feel important and involved, which creates a sense of responsibility and pride in their new role as a big sibling.

2. Talk openly about what to expect
   It’s natural for a child to have many questions or even feel unsure about getting a sibling. Be honest and clear when talking about the baby’s arrival. Talk about how much attention a newborn will need, but also explain the beautiful moments you’ll experience as a family. Also let them know how much you will all love your new family member.

3. Prepare for feelings – all are okay
   Children react differently when becoming older siblings. Some get excited and curious right away, while others may feel unsure or hesitant. Explain that it’s okay to have all kinds of feelings and that everything they feel is normal. By giving your child space to express their emotions without judgment, you create a sense of safety and openness.

4. A small gift from the baby
   Letting the baby “give” a present to the older sibling at their first meeting can be a lovely way to build a positive feeling from the start. A small gift can make the moment extra special and ease any tension. It can be something simple but meaningful, like a soft toy or a puzzle.

5. Be patient and lower your expectations
   Adjusting takes time – both for you as a parent and for your child. Be patient with the process and remember that it’s totally okay not to get everything right from the beginning. The family dynamic will change, and it’s natural for it to take time to find new routines. Give yourself space to settle into the new life, and remember that you’re doing your best.

6. Create one-on-one moments with the older sibling
   In the midst of all the attention a newborn demands, it’s easy for an older child to feel left out. Try to set aside time for activities where the older sibling gets your full attention. It can be something as simple as reading a book together or going for a walk, but those small moments make a big difference and show them they still have an important place in your heart.

7. Be kind to yourself
   Balancing life with more than one child is a challenge, and it’s easy to feel like you’re not doing enough. But don’t forget that you’re the best mom or dad for your children. Be kind to yourself and allow things to take time. Your family will find its new balance, and it’s completely normal if it doesn’t happen overnight.